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First-year families

The first year at the UW is a year of firsts for your whole family. This page is the lived-year companion to your newly committed welcome: what each quarter actually looks like, how to support without surveilling, and where to go when you’re not sure what to do next.

Just committed? Start here

Where you fit, now that they’re here

The UW operates on the premise that your student is an adult with the right to make their own decisions and own their academic record. FERPA (the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act) protects their grades, billing, and financial aid information from being shared with you automatically. Your student can grant you access through MyUW. Many do. Some don’t, and that’s also a legitimate choice.

The healthiest version of family involvement isn’t visibility into every grade. It’s a steady relationship where your student knows they can come to you, you trust them to handle what’s theirs to handle, and you both know when to call in help.

FERPA & access forms Parent & Family Guide

The first year, by quarter

What each quarter actually looks like, and what’s worth a check-in conversation along the way.

Autumn · Sept.–Dec. 2026

Find their footing

Move-in, Dawg Daze, the first set of midterms. The energy is high and the homesickness can come in waves. Most first-year students need three to five weeks to find their footing.

Family check-in: after Family Weekend (Nov. 6–7), and before Thanksgiving travel.

Winter · Jan.–March 2027

Settle, struggle, settle again

The Seattle gray hits in January and February. Spring quarter registration happens in February, the first time your student plans their own academic schedule.

Family check-in: late January, when the post-break energy fades.

Spring · March–June 2027

Choosing direction

Sophomore housing decisions. First major declarations for many students. Spring visit weekends. The first year wraps with finals in June and a more confident student than the one you sent in September.

Family check-in: April, around housing renewal and major declarations.

Summer · Looking ahead

A returning Husky

Summer term, internships, study abroad applications, or time at home. Whatever the path, your student is now a returning Husky, no longer a first-year.

Family check-in: late summer, before they head back for year two.

Talk with your Husky

“How are classes?” is the question they’re least likely to answer. Our Talk With Your Husky page offers prompts that lead somewhere: about community, about money, about wellness, about the messy in-between. Use them on long drives, at family dinners, or in the text thread you keep telling yourself you’ll start.

Three to start

  • “Who’s the first person you’d call here if you needed something?”
  • “What’s something on campus you’ve tried that you wouldn’t have tried at home?”
  • “What’s the hardest part right now? You don’t have to fix it on this call.”

Browse the prompts

When your student needs support

The UW has more support than your student is likely to use. Three places worth knowing about and bookmarking.

Academics

CLUE drop-in tutoring, writing centers, and study skills workshops. Free, all of it. The earlier in the quarter your student asks for help, the better the outcome.

Wellness

Husky Health & Well-Being is the central hub for mental, physical, and emotional support. Counseling, primary care, peer wellness, all on campus.

SafeCampus · 24/7

If you’re worried about your student, you can call SafeCampus yourself. 206-685-7233. Trained staff, anonymous, no need for your student to make the first move.

SafeCampus

Common first-year family questions

Questions specific to the first-year experience. For broader topics, visit our Common Questions page.

My student didn’t tell me about a bad grade or a missed deadline. Should I push?
The first year is when most students learn what a college-level grade actually means and how their own coping strategies hold up. Some of that learning is private. The healthiest move is usually to ask open questions (“How are you feeling about your courses?”) and let your student decide what to share. If you have real concerns about academic standing, your student can grant you access to grades through MyUW, or you can encourage them to meet with their .
How do I get visibility into tuition, fees, and financial aid?
You don’t get automatic access. Your student grants you access through the in MyUW. Once they do, becomes the one-stop for billing, payment plans, and tax forms. Quarterly tuition deadlines fall in the third week of each quarter; financial aid disburses on the first day of the quarter for students who completed their FAFSA on time.
My student seems isolated. What can I encourage?
The first weekends on campus matter. Half of all first-year students join a (FIG), which keeps them in a small cohort across multiple courses. runs a host of cohort and connection options. in late September pulls together hundreds of activities in the first ten days. The phrase that helps: “say yes to one thing this weekend, even if you don’t yet know anyone going.”
My student is struggling emotionally. What do I do?
Three options, in order of intensity. First, encourage your student to schedule a wellness check-in at . Second, if you’re worried and your student isn’t reaching out, you can call SafeCampus at 206-685-7233 and a trained staff member will help you decide whether to make a wellness check or talk it through. Third, if it’s an emergency, call 911 and tell the dispatcher your student is at the UW.
When does sophomore housing decisions happen?
Spring quarter. UW Housing & Food Services opens housing renewal in early spring, and the deadline to commit lands before final exams. Your student will get email reminders. Off-campus apartment leases in the U District typically open up between January and March for September move-in. Encourage your student to think about year-two housing as a winter-quarter conversation, not a spring crisis.
What about Thanksgiving and winter break travel?
Thanksgiving break is short: Wednesday to Sunday. Many out-of-state students stay on campus or travel to a friend’s family rather than fly home. Winter break runs about three weeks between fall and winter quarters. Spring break is one week between winter and spring. Book early, especially around the high-traffic Friday-after-finals departure.
Can I attend Family Weekend if my student is busy?
Yes. UW Family Weekend (Nov. 6–7, 2026) is built for families with or without your student available the whole weekend. Many parents fly in to see their student briefly and spend the rest of the weekend exploring Seattle and meeting other UW families. Our Family Weekend page has the full program.
How does my student get around Seattle without a car?
The is included in their quarterly fees. Unlimited rides on Metro buses, regional buses, Sound Transit, and Link Light Rail (which has a stop on campus and runs all the way to Sea-Tac Airport). The U-PASS lives on their Husky Card.

Keep in touch with PFP

The Parent Insider newsletter publishes seasonal essentials, deadlines, and resources to share with your Husky. We’ve got your back through the whole first year. Questions? uwparent@uw.edu.

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